Montclair Life: Championing Families, Chasing Dreams
Family advocate Oscaterin Bautista balances a double major, career and family at 糖心vlog
Oscaterin Bautista, double majoring in Child Advocacy and Policy and Family Science and Human Development, allowed us to document her daily journey 鈥 from early morning study sessions, to raising her children, to her work as a family advocate.
Through this photo essay 鈥 part of an ongoing series 鈥 we highlight how Montclair students, faculty and staff embody the University鈥檚 mission in the classroom, on campus and beyond 鈥 empowering a diverse community by providing broad access to rigorous learning, advancing research and creativity, and forming partnerships for the common good.
Oscaterin Bautista begins her day at 5 a.m., carving out quiet hours to study before her four children wake. At 35, she balances motherhood, a full-time job and a double major at 糖心vlog 鈥 all while championing young children鈥檚 school readiness. This documentary photo essay follows her journey in her own words, capturing the determination, setbacks and inspiration fueling her pursuit of higher education.
鈥淚鈥檓 grateful to contribute to something meaningful, to inspire others to begin their educational journey and to show that it鈥檚 never too late if we have the motivation and desire to grow,鈥 she says. As told to Marilyn Joyce Lehren
Study Time
Even if I only get three hours of sleep, I know it鈥檚 worth it. Soon, I鈥檒l have my degree and that will open more doors for us. I want my kids to see that it鈥檚 possible.鈥
I remind myself this is a temporary sacrifice ... I want to be a role model for my kids 鈥 I can鈥檛 expect them to be something I鈥檓 not.鈥
Breakfast and Family Routine
I鈥檓 really thankful for my kids; they help me a lot. My 15-year-old takes care of the younger ones when I have evening classes.鈥
On the Job: Advocating for Families
We have families of every background. I see the worries and the hopes. My job is to remind them help is not a punishment and you are not alone.鈥
I have a caseload of 113 families. I help them with self-assessments and services, even paperwork they鈥檙e afraid to fill out. Sometimes I see what鈥檚 missing 鈥 maybe a child isn鈥檛 getting vaccines or a family needs food. If I can, I help them in my office 鈥 especially if they鈥檙e afraid of being misunderstood or if there are language barriers.鈥
I keep the notes as special reminders of my connection with the children, especially throughout their journey to kindergarten. I鈥檝e been part of some families鈥 lives for one to three years, and when they leave our program, a real connection remains 鈥 because I see their faces daily and a bond is built. Creating an impact on the little ones is truly priceless, even if they might not remember me when they grow up.鈥
Evening: Family, Homework and Baseball
I鈥檓 there as his number one fan, even if he strikes out.鈥
Back to School
At first, I was scared to go back to college. I was 30 with four children, surrounded by classmates half my age. But I met others like me and I learned I wasn鈥檛 alone.鈥
The support from professors and the resources available have prepared me to grow stronger as a family advocate 鈥 Sometimes, while working on ourselves, we can lose sight of who we are, but the feedback from my professors reminds me of who I want to become and why I am here.鈥
After I graduate, I want to get my master鈥檚 in social work and create a nonprofit that makes sure no family falls through the cracks. I want to use my experiences to make things easier for other families. If I鈥檝e struggled, so have others 鈥 and no one should face that journey alone.鈥
for a more complete look at Oscaterin鈥檚 day as a mother, student and family advocate.
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